The status of a mother in Islam is truly tremendous as Islam commands one to be dutiful to ones parents, being kind to them, respect and value them. Islam made the status of the parents much greater than any other religion or ideology. One should obey ones parents as long as they do not command us to disobey Allah. This emphasis can be seen in many verses in the Qur’an and ahadith. The prophet (Peace & blessings of Allah be upon him) emphasized the treatment of the mother in particular in the following hadith.
Living in a western society can bring many benefits. It can bring security, education, healthcare, and a good living standard. This same society can negatively influence the Muslim faith of your children. With care, your child can still grow into an adult in this society while keeping their Muslim faith. It is important you teach your children by how you live your life as a practicing Muslim.